The next morning

After that first "party" weekend in kaifaqu, that is the juicy part of this story. Playing pool against tht gorgeous woman and getting her number is the introduction.

Here I am, standing at the Ching-qui, waiting, and waiting, this train can't come soon enough. I was running late, what am I going to tell this woman? Hey I'm silly, nervous and kept second guessin my attire sooooo now I am running late? I told her I took the train too far and I had to back track...no pun intended :p

I got up that morning not expecting a response, because well, she didn't take my number last night. I thought surely her giving me her number was her way of seeing whether or not I was a creep. At the same time though I didn't think this rendezvous was leading to anything significant, I just had hopes that it could. I'm always keeping my options open with a mindset for positivity, never negative :) she gave me her number which also originally made me think it was a clever rouse to come off as nice without intentionally hurting my feelings if a digit or so was incorrect. 

She did though, she responded telling me she was not up to much and if I was avilable she wouldn't mind showing me around the city :)

I respectfully accepted her request, and then well, now here I am, late. On the train, and soon to be baffled by how gorgeous and kind she is.

When I approached her, she welcomes me with southern greetings "bless your heart" as she always said, a small hint of an accent that we jokes about, she constantly asks me if she has one as noticeable as my Canadian accent lol my Canadian friends and family are all laughing right now, I know. Sarah is probably like, ya your accent is incredibly noticeable. :p miss you all!

We went for lunch, as I write this now my stomach is actually growling. 

Lunch was western food at tony krochet or something :p really good! It was an expensive day, I saw the prices and of import beers and random imported foods at a high, which makes sense, welcome to china. We also went for massages which honestly was not all that bad for price, not something I would normally get or endulge in, but for her, totally! It was actually pretty great, a bit weird around the middle but good :) and noooooo, there was no happy ending and yes it was still worth the money :p

The day was great, a right success. She loved hearing about the studies in psychology that I had to commend on making me look super smart and interesting. Yes to actually is something I very much enjoy. Yes it was all real and true facts. No, at the time in school I didn't think it would be used for picking up girls and impressing beautiful women. My biggest piece of advice to you, learn about the psychology of human sexuality...just saying lol 

But ya, we laughed, talked and end life's in each other's company. I could have asked for a better introduction. I felt like a lot of what I did was me messing up. I didn't feel like I was playing the right cards if you know what I mean, maybe felt like I was coming off a bit strong? But no, she flirted back and enjoyed every moment together, she thought I was adorable. Not in a too cute kind of way either because, well, we went back to her place for a glass of wine and experimented with the genetic theory of the kiss. 

It was a successful experiement, two grown people could enjoy a day together and one kiss wouldn't have broken great flow created by everything that day.

That glass if wine and kiss may have well been the seal to the deal, but she takes to a classier kind of guy, so we waited for the other stuff that comes and goes :)

That was the story of how I got to where I am today, happy :)

Cheers,

Carm

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